Sunday, August 22, 2010

Just a Girl and Her Dog

In an effort to make up for all the “un-walks” we’ve taken this summer because of the heat, I took my dog hiking for two days last week. Call it “bad dog-mom guilt” or an excuse to get away for a couple days before school begins or just time spent in the woods; we had a great time. We went to Turkey Run, one of Indiana’s state parks, which is known for it’s great hiking trails. There are 11 trails, ranging from easy to moderate to rugged. We hiked some of each and the rugged are definitely challenging. We scrambled over huge boulders, wound our way up and down canyons, hopped stones across several creeks (well, I hopped across the stones; Tosca went straight through the creek), and enjoyed the beautiful scenery surrounding us.

Tosca is 13 years old and I wondered how she’d do on the more rugged trails, but she was eager to go and rarely needed to stop and rest. She must have been tired though, because she slept very soundly at night. We stayed overnight at a little motel about fifteen minutes away and returned for a second day of hiking before heading home late Wednesday afternoon.

It was so nice to spend some time away, just the two of us: enjoying God’s creation, praying as I walked, listening to the birds, thinking about the coming school year, being “still.”

I hope Tosca remembers these two days when the “too-tired-to–take-you-for-a-walk dog-mom” begins school.

And, after my tech training, I’ve put together a little video of our hikes. The song is“The Mountain” by Steven Curtis Chapman from his album “Heaven in the Real World” and I think it perfectly captures my feelings on the hike.



Monday, August 16, 2010

Monday Moment

Inner Peace:

If you can start the day without caffeine,

If you can always be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,

If you can resist complaining and boring people with your troubles,

If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,

If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,

If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,

If you can conquer tension without medical help,

If you can relax without liquor,

If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,



…Then You Are Probably The Family Dog!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Technology at School

As I’m preparing for the new school year, I’ve been thinking about how things have changed since I first began teaching some ? years ago.

Back then we:

  • made copies of worksheets with ditto machines, which constantly stained your fingers with purple ink
  • traced letters on construction paper and cut them out by hand for bulletin board titles
  • used a large opaque projector to enlarge “cutsie” characters and then colored them with markers for bulletin board displays.
  • handwrote tests and quizzes (which always seemed to slant downward at the end of each line no matter how much I tried to keep my writing straight)
  • relied primarily on school-purchased textbooks for lessons
  • utilized filmstrips and movie projectors (and learning how to thread both reels of the projector)

Now we:

  • use a copy machine, white board, or computer screen for student worksheets or practice
  • punch letters using an acu-cut machine or a computer-generated sign or banner (and laminate so they can be reused)
  • sometimes use an overhead projector (much smaller than the opaque) if something needs to be enlarged for display
  • use the computer to make professional looking tests, quizzes, and booklets
  • rely on the internet for topic research and lesson enhancements
  • utilize video clips, student projects, and various interactive websites

As part of a team of teachers from our school who received a year-long technology grant, I spent two full days last week learning more about the ways technology can be used to enhance education, and I’m excited about the possibilities. The students I teach today are growing up in a different world than the students I taught twenty years ago. Today’s students have always known about computers and ipods, the internet and YouTube. This is their world, and I’m excited about the ways I can incorporate these kinds of things to impact their learning.

This school year I’m looking forward to using a new interactive whiteboard with my students as well as creating a classroom wiki, which will showcase their writing, videos, and audio recordings. Further training during the school year with our team as well as attending a technology conference in the spring will provide additional ways to utilize technology in my classroom to benefit my students.

As I reflect on the “good old days” of teaching, I’m thankful for the “good new days” as well and the continued advances in education and technology. My goal is to help my students learn more about God's world and their place in it. And technology can be an asset in our classroom experience.


Monday, August 9, 2010

Monday Moment

I've seen this several places on the internet and don't know if it's true or not, but I like to think it is. What a sweet story.

The Wallet
As I walked home one freezing day, I stumbled on a wallet someone had lost in the street. I picked it up and looked inside to find some identification so I could call the owner. But the wallet contained only three dollars and a crumpled letter that looked as if it had been in there for years.

The envelope was worn and the only thing that was legible on it was the return address. I started to open the letter, hoping to find some clue. Then I saw the dateline -- 1924. The letter had been written almost sixty years ago.

It was written in a beautiful feminine handwriting on powder blue stationery with a little flower in the left-hand corner. It was a "Dear John" letter that told the recipient, whose name appeared to be Michael, that the writer could not see him any more because her mother forbade it. Even so, she wrote that she would always love him. It was signed, Hannah.

It was a beautiful letter, but there was no way except for the name Michael, that the owner could be identified. Maybe if I called information, the operator could find a phone listing for the address on the envelope.

"Operator," I began, "this is an unusual request. I'm trying to find the owner of a wallet that I found. Is there anyway you can tell me if there is a phone number for an address that was on an envelope in the wallet?" She suggested I speak with her supervisor, who hesitated for a moment then said, "Well, there is a phone listing at that address, but I can't give you the number." She said, as a courtesy, she would call that number, explain my story and would ask them if they wanted her to connect me. I waited a few minutes and then she was back on the line. "I have a party who will speak with you." I asked the woman on the other end of the line if she knew anyone by the name of Hannah. She gasped, "Oh! We bought this house from a family who had a daughter named Hannah. But that was 30 years ago!"

"Would you know where that family could be located now?" I asked.

"I remember that Hannah had to place her mother in a nursing home some years ago," the woman said. "Maybe if you got in touch with them they might be able to track down the daughter." She gave me the name of the nursing home and I called the number. They told me the old lady had passed away some years ago but they did have a phone number for where they thought the daughter might be living. I thanked them and phoned. The woman who answered explained that Hannah herself was now living in a nursing home.

This whole thing was stupid, I thought to myself. Why was I making such a big deal over finding the owner of a wallet that had only three dollars and a letter that was almost 60 years old?

Nevertheless, I called the nursing home in which Hannah was supposed to be living and the man who answered the phone told me, "Yes, Hannah is staying with us. " Even though it was already 10 p.m., I asked if I could come to see her. " Well," he said hesitatingly, "if you want to take a chance, she might be in the day room watching television."

I thanked him and drove over to the nursing home. The night nurse and a guard greeted me at the door. We went up to the third floor of the large building. In the day room, the nurse introduced me to Hannah. She was a sweet, silver-haired old timer with a warm smile and a twinkle in her eye. I told her about finding the wallet and showed her the letter. The second she saw the powder blue envelope with that little flower on the left, she took a deep breath and said, "Young man, this letter was the last contact I ever had with Michael."

She looked away for a moment deep in thought and then said softly, "I loved him very much. But I was only 16 at the time and my mother felt I was too young. Oh, he was so handsome. He looked like Sean Connery, the actor."

"Yes," she continued. "Michael Goldstein was a wonderful person. If you should find him, tell him I think of him often. And," she hesitated for a moment, almost biting her lip, "tell him I still love him. You know," she said smiling as tears began to well up in her eyes, "I never did marry. I guess no one ever matched up to Michael..."

I thanked Hannah and said goodbye. I took the elevator to the first floor and as I stood by the door, the guard there asked, "Was the old lady able to help you?" I told him she had given me a lead. "At least I have a last name. But I think I'll let it go for a while. I spent almost the whole day trying to find the owner of this wallet." I had taken out the wallet, which was a simple brown leather case with red lacing on the side.

When the guard saw it, he said, "Hey, wait a minute! That's Mr. Goldstein's wallet. I'd know it anywhere with that right red lacing. He's always losing that wallet. I must have found it in the halls at least three times."

"Who's Mr. Goldstein?" I asked as my hand began to shake. "He's one of the old timers on the 8th floor. That's Mike Goldstein's wallet for sure. He must have lost it on one of his walks." I thanked the guard and quickly ran back to the nurse's office. I told her what the guard had said. We went back to the elevator and got on. I prayed that Mr. Goldstein would be up. On the eighth floor, the floor nurse said, "I think he's still in the day room. He likes to read at night. He's a darling old man."

We went to the only room that had any lights on and there was a man reading a book. The nurse went over to him and asked if he had lost his wallet. Mr. Goldstein looked up with surprise, put his hand in his back pocket and said, " Oh, it is missing!"

"This kind gentleman found a wallet and we wondered if it could be yours?" I handed Mr. Goldstein the wallet and the second he saw it, he smiled with relief and said, "Yes, that's it! It must have dropped out of my pocket this afternoon. I want to give you a reward." "No, thank you," I said. "But I have to tell you something. I read the letter in the hope of finding out who owned the wallet." The smile on his face suddenly disappeared. "You read that letter?" "Not only did I read it, I think I know where Hannah is." He suddenly grew pale.

"Hannah? You know where she is? How is she? Is she still as pretty as she was? Please, please tell me," he begged. "She's fine...just as pretty as when you knew her." I said softly. The old man smiled with anticipation and asked, "Could you tell me where she is? I want to call her tomorrow." He grabbed my hand and said, "You now something, mister, I was so in love with that girl that when that letter came, my life literally ended. I never married. I guess I've always loved her. "Mr. Goldstein," I said, "Come with me."

We took the elevator down to the third floor. The hallways were darkened and only one or two little night-lights lit our way to the day room where Hannah was sitting alone watching the television. The nurse walked over to her. "Hannah," she said softly, pointing to Michael, who was waiting with me in the doorway. "Do you know this man?" She adjusted her glasses, looked for a moment, but didn't say a word. Michael said softly, almost in a whisper, "Hannah, it's Michail. Do you remember me?" She gasped, "Michael! I don't believe it! Michael! It's you! My Michael!" He walked slowly towards her and they embraced. The nurse and I left with tears streaming down our faces.
"See," I said. "See how the Good Lord works! If it's meant to be, it will be."

About three weeks later I got a call at my office from the nursing home. "Can you break away on Sunday to attend a wedding? Michael and Hannah are going to tie the knot!" It was a beautiful wedding with all the people at the nursing home dressed up to join in the celebration. Hannah wore a light beige dress and looked beautiful. Michael wore a dark blue suit and stood tall. They made me their best man. The hospital gave them their own room and if you ever wanted to see a 76- year-old bride and a 79-year-old groom acting like two teenagers, you had to see this couple.

A perfect ending for a love affair that had lasted nearly 60 years.


Friday, August 6, 2010

Hold Tight!

The water is (unusually) warm; the waves brisk. My seven year old nephew and nine year old niece (visiting from Indiana) love the water and can't wait to start splashing around. The beach is filled with people on this hot summer day. The water, too, is teeming with people – children near the shore, adults a little farther out, and teenagers out near the buoy markers signaling the end of the swimming area. The sun sparkles on the water as the waves crest and crash. What a beautiful day!

The kids want to walk farther out in the water to catch the deeper waves, but they listen to my instructions to stay closer to shore. At first, they don't like my other condition: we have to hold hands. They want to splash in the waves on their own, jumping and falling in the water. They want me nearby but not too close. They want their independence.

But I know something about Lake Michigan that my niece and nephew don't yet understand. This is a large and powerful lake, with strong undercurrents that can trap even the most capable swimmer. And the swimming flag today is red, which means extra caution needs to be taken when going in the water. So even though my niece is on a swim team at home, I still require her to hold my hand. And we stay in the more shallow area of the beach – deep enough for them to splash and jump, but shallow enough for me to maintain strong footing on the sandy bottom when the waves come. And I hold their hands to keep them safe. We laugh and splash and enjoy the experience together, but I am constantly on guard for the coming waves. And when my nephew pulls away, I grab his hand. I love these children and I hold them fast.

And as I grip their hands in mine, I'm suddenly struck with the imagery – the realization that God holds me in His hand as well. Just as my niece and nephew need to trust that I know what's best in the lake and holding my hand will protect them, I need to trust that God knows what is best for me. I need to stop pulling away, trying to do things on my own, because the undercurrent of life has dangers that I'm not aware of. I need to keep my hand in God's hand and hold tight.

What a beautiful day!

Monday, August 2, 2010

Monday Moment

What makes someone rich or poor? It all depends on your perspective ...

One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"

"It was great, Dad."

"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.

"Oh yeah," said the son.

"So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father.

The son answered: "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a Creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We buy our food, but they grow theirs and eat it fresh. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless as his son added, "Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are."

Isn't perspective a wonderful thing?